Sunday, June 14, 2009

Home For Sale




I marketed numerous homes for my clients, did many open houses on weekends, I am always enthusiastic to do my best. Strangely it's hard to apply the strategies to my own home. It's on the market for awhile, I had few conditional offers but it went down the drain due to mortgage strict compliance. I was not doing extra effort to sale it fast until recently, I can't even market it properly, perhaps selling is against my will but I am left with no choice.

Yesterday, Saturday, for the first time I did an open house, Friday night and very early Saturday morning before sunrise, me and my brother worked hard to clean the house, him, mowing the one acre grass, cleaning garage and driveway while I cleaned inside, spic and span. One agent called up asking to hide my cat coz he is bringing a client who hates cat. My poor baby has to go away for awhile and had to hide any trace of him at home. Fifteen minutes before the open house started, I was on my business suit with light make up on, standing at the front to greet people. Most of the people who came were from a certain country of origin, I'm not going to mention as it sounds prejudicing. All I heard from them were negatives,harsh words, for a sole purpose to chop down the price into almost nothing. It affects physchologically and made me depress. I can take criticism as long as it's rationally express not bluntly on my face. They knew I am not only an Agent but an Owner as well. I heard bad comments to the houses I was marketing and i am always on alert to defend in a civilized manner but when it comes to my own, it really hit me deeply. I am also an immigrant here with a colored skin but people in this certain culture has no regards at all to another human beings feeling. Perhaps it's normal from where they came from. I can't be rude to them, against the code of ethics and I may lose the potential sale. I still acted professionally, calmed and smiling, acknowledging them promptly for coming though I felt like chasing them with a knife, (LOL).
When it was over,I slept until late this morning. I was not exhausted physically but mentally and emotionally hurt. Listening to all those blunderers made me felt so down and depress, ruined even my whole day today, I lose my my high spirit but I have to deal with it, they are fast growing in this country and they started to dominate the wealth and market. For sure there are also exceptions, not all of them. I am wondering how these people could feel superiority to another culture,this a multi-racial country, they should at least blend in and not imposing their way of life to a different society. Leave it at home or keep it to themselves. Yesterday's venture brings back bad memories, I can't get away from them....

There will be another open house next Saturday, but I'll have it done by my colleague while I keep distance, maybe do barbeque in the park with my brother.

14 comments:

  1. There is nothing worse than trying to sell your own home! I hated it too, I could not be polite though.....If they said something rude about an aspect, I told them to shove off.
    I cannot abide rudeness of any sort, from anybody. LOL.
    I would have chased them with that knife!!!!!!

    Much Love

    Tracey
    xxx

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  2. ha ha ha, I wish I could have your strength and firmness Trace. I am very gentle by nature, I can't even swear back at them. reasons probably why I am being abused by these people. you are right, the hardest part is selling your own home. One of the reason why we don't allow our Sellers to be physically present when the prospective buyers come. One of my seller before had sneaked in at the open house of her home and errupted to critics, that was a disastrous day.
    I should train my dog to chase these kind of people lol.
    lots of love!

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  3. whad ya' know they can be strategizing all along - you know, making this and that comment so the owner will lower the price!!
    these buyers are keen on getting the best price so even if they liked the house they are inclined to make some nasty remark just to see if they can bargain.
    amna, my intuition tells me that selling that house for profit wasn't your objective. you would rather want the house to go to a family who will continue to nurture it and beautify it and fill it with happy memories. despite the bitter reason to depart from it, you still have an attachment to the house, so yes,
    i think it would be best if you distance yourself and let go.
    i know you will find more peace and joy in a new house soon.
    and with less effort for its upkeep. damn, that house is HUGE!!! hahaha.
    hope you are able to sleep now...
    warm hugs,
    xoxoxoxoxo

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  4. dette,that's what exactly they are up to,but at least they can be more civilized in using their language and tone. you are right, it's hard for me to let go but I can no longer sustain, been doing it for more than 3 years by myself even when my ex was around and it's drying me up to the bones financially and physically, I raised my hands. i could have handle it easily if he did not maximized the equity behind my knowledge and ran off.

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  5. oooh, i would have gone mad...your too calm!

    Very very nice house...wow!!

    Amy xxxx

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  6. I have tagged you on my blog!!!! xxxxxxxxx

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  7. kirst tagged you too, so there is no escape from it! hahahaha.
    i'm waiting... * fingers tapping on table*

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  8. Hi Amna, Are you ok? haven't heard from you in a while!!
    Lots of love xxxxxxxxxxx

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  9. Kumusta? hope you are doing well. it's odd not hearing from you. paramdam ka naman...
    hugs,
    xoxoxoxoxo

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  10. OOh I love the house!!! Amna people who treat you this way are not worth it. They are lower class inbreds who may have won lotto the way they are acting. Truly decent people have respect manners and don't act like they deserve self entitlement as a right.
    Taker care
    Kirst
    xxo

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  11. Hi Amna, Are you ok? Really miss you. xxx

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  13. It is so hard when people criticize our homes because we have put so much of ourselves into them. Best wishes for a sale very soon. What will be will be. I am sure it will all work out well.
    Cal x

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  14. Musta na? I hope your doing ok.
    miss you!
    xoxoxoxo

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